If I haven’t mentioned before that I’m a geek, this article will surely prove it.
I’d like to start out by mentioning one of my great Star Wars quotes from the Bible.
“From the Bible,” you ask? Yes. And it has a great implication for Dads – especially as your kids enter middle and high school.
Some of you still aren’t convinced that Star Wars quotes the Bible. If you’d like to stop reading right now and leave a comment as your guess what it is; then do it. It’s the only way people will believe you if you’re geeky enough to get it right.
That was your chance.
Here’s what Jesus said (in Matthew 12:30):
30 “Whoever is not with me is against me, andwhoever does not gather with me scatters.
It’s a pretty plain, direct statement. Some might even consider it a statement of absolute. There is no grey area. You’re either for Jesus, or you are against him . . . and if you’re against him then you’re going to lose.
Here’s the quote from Star Wars Revenge of the Sith:
Anakin Skywalker: If you’re not with me, then you’re my enemy.
Obi-Wan Kenobi: Only a Sith deals in absolutes. I will do what I must.
Anakin Skywalker: You will try.
So, obviously the director was trying to make some sort of statement . . . probably against God. But that’s Hollywood.
My concern as a Dad is that there are many venues for our kids where absolutes are shunned. If I went to the local high school and said, “There are only two genders.” There would be drama. Same thing if I made the statement, “3rd trimester abortion is murder.” Or “You have to believe in Jesus’ atoning sacrifice for your sins in order to go to heaven.” Or “Homosexuality is a sin.”
Any one of those statements at a public school would get my kids disciplined or ostracized. Same thing if they were said in a social setting – there would be an immediate issue with some people. Unfortunately, even at many churches there would be the same level of drama if any of the above statements were said; especially from the pulpit.
The good thing is, very few people need to go around publically stating absolutes. But, as Dads, we really need to make sure that our kids know the truth and know that there isn’t a grey area with most things God says in the Bible.
Much of our society has become a dichotomy (two parts) of people groups; the loud, and the quietly virtuous. It pretty clear that there is a lot of stigma against absolute virtue from the media these days. So I wouldn’t ever post on Facebook: “Sex outside of marriage is wrong.” because my feed would immediately erupt in drama. So, like most people, I share truth with people that aren’t going to turn into a Darth Vader when they hear an absolute.
Your kids are those people. We’re not raising Dark Lords of the Sith (for you non-geeks, that means ‘villains’). We want to make sure that our kids know right from wrong; they need to know the absolutes. And of course we’ll temper the knowledge with how to live according to the truth . . . and how to avoid drama along the way.
Let me encourage you to have a discussion about absolutes with your kids. If you don’t, they’ll get plenty of loud opinions from their school and society. Be open to hear their thoughts and ideas. Teens have to consider moral truth in light of all the opposing viewpoints. Just make sure that they get an understanding of the ‘absolute’ viewpoint as well.
*For those of you that are super-geeky, there is another Bible reference in the same movie. Here’s the quote:
Anakin Skywalker: My powers have doubled since we last met count.
Count Dooku: Good, twice the pride, double the fall.
Extra points if you comment or email me with the Bible verse the Count is referencing!